A Memorial Day Salute to Real Soldiers
They Actually Gave a Damn About This Country
It used to be the day we honored men who actually fought to protect America, not to secure oil contracts for Halliburton or lithium deposits for Tesla. Men who believed this country was worth dying for, not because a recruiter promised them college tuition, but because they genuinely thought freedom mattered more than their own lives. I know this sounds like mythology in 2026, like Iâm describing unicorns or honest politicians, but these men actually existed.
Let me show you what real sacrifice looked like before America became a mercenary force for billionaires. Let me tell you about my grandfathers, because if you want to understand what weâve lost, you need to see what we had. These werenât perfect men, they werenât saints, but they cared about this country enough to risk everything for it. That matters. That SHOULD matter. And the fact that it doesnât matter anymore should terrify you.

He got himself a fake ID (this was the early 1950s, so âfake IDâ meant âsomeoneâs cousin wrote a thingâ), walked into a recruiting office, and lied his way onto a destroyer. For the next ten years, from age fifteen to twenty-five, he sailed around Asia shooting at people who were shooting back. He came home, married my grandmother, raised a family, and never once complained that his adolescence was spent dodging artillery in the Pacific.
My other grandfather Joe fought in Korea as a tank commander. He made it through basic training because he was the only guy in his unit who could READ WELL ENOUGH TO UNDERSTAND COMPLEX ORDERS. Let that particular detail about American literacy rates in the 1950s simmer for a moment. They fast-tracked him to officer status because comprehending written instructions apparently qualified as a rare talent. He left Korea as a lieutenant with hundreds of tanks under his command.

Two days in a tree, unconscious, while his unit presumably went about their business assuming heâd been vaporized with the rest of his crew. They found him, rushed him to a hospital, and he spent the next nine months drifting in and out of a coma. When he finally woke up enough to be discharged, he went home to rural New York, married my grandmother, and lived a long, quiet life. These are the men I think about on Memorial Day, and this is why I have very little patience for people who complain about hard things.
When America Actually Meant Something
The Greatest Generation gets that title for a reason, and itâs not because some marketing genius at a publishing house thought it sounded catchy. These were kids (KIDS, not âyoung adultsâ or âemerging adultsâ or whatever therapy-speak we use now to infantilize twenty-five-year-olds) who grew up in the Depression, watched fascism swallow Europe, and said âyeah okay I guess someone should probably do something about that.â
They didnât demand trigger warnings before boot camp. They didnât ask if the VA would cover their therapy. They didnât form a committee to study the emotional impacts of getting shot at. They just WENT.
Sixteen million Americans served in World War II. Thatâs sixteen million people who put their actual lives on hold (or ended them entirely, which is notably permanent) because their country asked them to. Not because theyâd get college tuition afterward. Not because it would look good on a resume. Not because an influencer told them it was the patriotic thing to do.
Because America was actually fighting for something that mattered.
(This really happened. America once fought wars that werenât just resource grabs for Raytheon shareholders. I know this sounds like mythology, but there are photos and everything.)
The Others Who Fell
Korea gets forgotten between the Big One and Vietnam, but 36,000 Americans died there, including every other man in my grandfather Joeâs tank when a round detonated inside during that training exercise. They died in frozen trenches fighting proxy wars for politicians who couldnât find Korea on a map six months earlier. They died so South Korea wouldnât become North Korea, which, given what we know about North Korea now, seems like it was probably worth doing even if Douglas MacArthur was completely unhinged.
Vietnam gets remembered, but mostly for the protests and the politics and the Pentagon Papers and everything EXCEPT the 58,000 Americans who died there. They died in jungles fighting an enemy they couldnât see for a cause their own government didnât believe in. We sent them anyway, then we spit on them when they came home, because apparently fighting in an unjust war makes you complicit rather than a victim of the people who sent you there.
Iraq and Afghanistan produced another 7,000 dead Americans over twenty years of occupation that accomplished ABSOLUTELY NOTHING except making defense contractors richer than small nations. Weâre still not sure what we were doing there at the end, and neither were the guys we sent to do it. But they went anyway, because when America says âwe need you to go die in this desert for reasons weâll explain later (we will not explain later),â they GO. They keep going, deployment after deployment, because thatâs what soldiers do even when the people giving them orders donât deserve their obedience. Thatâs what makes them heroes, not the wars themselves, which are mostly garbage designed to transfer taxpayer money into private hands.
Hereâs What Changed
The guys who died on Omaha Beach fought actual Nazis. The kind with swastikas and genocide and plans for world domination. Not the kind we call people on Twitter because they disagree about tax policy. ACTUAL NAZIS. The guys who died at Iwo Jima were stopping Imperial Japan from conquering the Pacific.
My grandfathers Robert and Joe both fought in Korea to keep the Kim family from enslaving an entire peninsula. Seems like a worthy goal. The millions of South Koreans who arenât currently starving in labor camps probably agree. They were stopping communist expansion, fighting for something that actually mattered even if Korea gets forgotten between the Big One and Vietnam.

This is where Memorial Day gets complicated in 2026.
Weâre supposed to honor the fallen. I do. I honor them completely. My grandfathers taught me what duty looks like. What sacrifice means. What it costs to defend something bigger than yourself.
But what are we defending NOW? Not America, thatâs for sure. Weâre not defending America. America isnât being invaded. No foreign power is threatening our sovereignty. Nobodyâs marching on Washington. The only people threatening American democracy are AMERICANS, and weâre not allowed to shoot at those guys because they wear expensive suits and own media companies.
So what are we defending? Weâre defending ExxonMobilâs extraction rights in contested territories. Weâre defending Lockheed Martinâs revenue projections. Weâre defending Saudi Arabiaâs regional interests (because they own enough of our debt to demand it). Weâre defending Israelâs expansion plans (because AIPAC owns enough of Congress to mandate it). Weâre defending BlackRockâs portfolio positions in resource-rich nations that happen to have governments we donât like.
Weâre not defending America. Weâre defending the financial interests of people who wouldnât piss on a burning soldier if it meant missing their tee time. Thatâs not hyperbole and itâs not conspiracy theory, itâs just what happens when your foreign policy is written by think tanks funded by defense contractors, energy companies, and foreign governments.
The Part Where I Sound Crazy (But Iâm Not)
My grandfathers fought for THIS COUNTRY, the actual dirt and people and flag and idea of America. They believed in something real. The guys deployed right now are fighting for quarterly earnings reports, and thatâs not hyperbole or conspiracy theory, thatâs just what happens when your foreign policy is written by think tanks funded by defense contractors, energy companies, and foreign governments.
The Greatest Generation was great because they fought in wars that NEEDED fighting. They werenât perfect, no generation is, but when they shipped out they were protecting something that actually required protection. Now we send kids to die so Larry Fink can diversify his portfolio, and weâre about to make it SO MUCH WORSE with the wars being planned right now.
The Wars Being Planned Right Now
Speaking of dystopian futures (smooth transition, right?), let me tell you about the war Iâm currently losing. Not in Iran, not in some desert, but right here in New York fighting against AI data centers. You know whatâs more dangerous than a bomb? A technology that makes humans obsolete. You know whatâs more destructive than a war? An economic system that treats people as disposable inputs in an algorithm designed to maximize profit for people who have more money than God and less conscience than a tapeworm.

Iâve been fighting this for two years. Iâve filed dozens of complaints with local, state, and federal agencies. Iâve submitted environmental impact studies, documented violations, written thousands of pages of testimony. Know whatâs happened? ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. Nothing at all, because the billionaires building these facilities own the politicians who would need to stop them, because the tech companies funding these projects employ the lobbyists who write the regulations that are supposed to constrain them, because the people who could fix this are the EXACT SAME PEOPLE profiting from it.
So now Iâm doing what I should have done two years ago: Iâm hiring a lawyer. A REAL lawyer, not me filing pro se paperwork that gets mysteriously âlostâ or âmisfiledâ or âprocessedâ into a bureaucratic black hole. An actual attorney who knows how to make rich people uncomfortable, because my grandfathers taught me something important about what you do when something matters.
When something matters, you fight. You donât whine, you donât surrender, you donât accept defeat because the other side has more money and more power and more friends in high places. You just FIGHT. They fought in Korea with bullets, Iâm fighting tech billionaires with lawyers, and itâs different tools but the same war.
What I Need From You
Hereâs the thing about hiring lawyers who can actually challenge billionaires: theyâre not cheap. Shocking, I know. Turns out attorneys who specialize in David-versus-Goliath environmental cases against multinational corporations donât work for Applebeeâs gift cards and good vibes. Iâm not asking you to storm a beach or sail around Asia for ten years shooting at strangers or spend nine months in a coma after getting blown out of a tank. Iâm asking you to help me pay someone who can slow these bastards down before they turn our entire planet into a science fiction dystopia full of demon-named AI data centers and armies of killer robots. Thatâs the choice, thatâs where we are, and we donât have much time left to make it.
My grandfathers fought for America when America was worth fighting for, and now Iâm fighting to make sure thereâs still an America worth passing down to the next generation, a version that isnât just a corporate subdivision of Amazon-Google-Microsoft-Meta where humans still matter more than quarterly earnings. If you believe that fight matters, help me hire the lawyer who can actually win it. If this article meant something to you, if you understand what weâre losing, if you remember when America stood for something bigger than Lockheed Martinâs bottom line, then become a paid subscriber and help me take these billionaire parasites to court and make them explain why their server farms matter more than breathable air.




You are the king of "Smooth Transitions." As for attorneys, look into Aaron Siri. He is an incredible human and his 2 main paralegals are top shelf. He is in New York. Nicole Pearson in Orange County, CA (where I am) is a pitbull in the best way. If you need contact info for either of them, please let me know and I will happily provide it. Thank you to your grandfather for doing God's work. My father in law died before I met my husband but was on par. He also was a guard at the Nuremberg trials. My husband and his siblings are first generation Latvian Americans. May God continue to keep you safe and restore your health. We need you and Lily.
The honored dead, RIP
Siri is outstanding -- don't know if he takes on cases outside of the medical freedom space